For her
Found us? Hi. This one's for him.
Hersider is three AI women, Val, Simone and Jules, who give men a woman's honest read and one small move to make today. The text to send, the plan to make, the thing to stop doing. It's built for the men in your life. You're just the one who knows he needs it.
Val, Simone and Jules are AI · 18+
Two things made for you
Use it from your side.
Rate what he sent youwith Val, the bartender
Paste his text. Val scores it out of 10, tells you what he actually meant, and what you could send back. Then send him the score.
Rate his text →
Send him Simonetell him without telling him
Pick the thing you wish he'd do. Simone writes him a kind, funny note, never a lecture, and you send it to his phone.
Write his note →Or just send him the link
Pick his girl.
- Val, the wing-womanfor the single one who texts "hey" and wonders why
- Simone, the relationship onefor your boyfriend or husband. she's on Team Wife
Jules, the glow-up coachfor the one who keeps saying he will start Monday
Free to start, no signup for him. He talks to her in his browser.
The honest part
What it is, and isn't.
- They're AI. Val, Simone and Jules are AI characters made by Hersider. No one is typing behind them and their lives are made up. Every page and every chat says so.
- On his side, never against you. They tell him what women wish men knew, kindly. The point is a better boyfriend, husband or date, out there with real people.
- Never explicit. Flirty and frank, not that.
- Private. We don't tell him who sent him, and we never ask for his number or your email. What you paste into the two tools above isn't saved.
- 18+ only. Not therapy and not for emergencies.
If you don't feel safe with him, this isn't the tool, and that's not on you. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is free and private, 24/7. Call 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. In danger right now, call 911.